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Discovery

July 16, 2018 By Deborah Luscomb

Now is the time in one’s life to make discoveries.  Now is always the time… for most things.  The past is no longer here…. and, try as we might, we cannot change it.  The future has not yet arrived, and, though we make plans, we know that those plans are tentative, and that, despite our best efforts, everything changes.  Often unexpectedly.

So what is to be discovered now?  And how do we go about it?

Perhaps in each moment the experience of a lifetime can be discovered …. infinite beauty and delight…. boundless appreciation… love.  What happens if we stay still for this moment and simply notice what we see, hear, smell, taste, feel…. fully…. without commentary, judgment, analysis?  Perhaps a discovery!

This habit – of being fully present and appreciative – will serve us well at the time of death.

Filed Under: The "D" Word

Dead

July 6, 2018 By Deborah Luscomb

The dreaded “d” word.  The word we find ourselves unable to use.  In lieu of “dead”, we say…. bite the dust, bought the farm, cash in one’s chips, departed, expired, gave up the ghost, gone to meet one’s maker, immortally challenged, in a better place, kicked the bucket, living-impaired, no longer with us, passed away, pushing up daisies, resting in peace, shuffled off this mortal coil, six feet under, with the angels, and many more euphemisms.

Anything but “dead”!

Go ahead… practice saying it out loud… “dead… dead…  dead”.

Saying the word won’t kill you.  In fact, getting familiar with the idea that becoming dead is inevitable may just bring renewed appreciation to every moment of your life!

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Deadwood

July 5, 2018 By Deborah Luscomb

Whatcha up to, Mac?”

“Ho, Bertie. I’m just a’contemplatin’ these here boats.”

“You going to come home soon and finish making dinner? You got everything cut up and ready to cook. Did you forget what you were doing?”

[Read more…] about Deadwood

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Deliverance

July 5, 2018 By Deborah Luscomb

Will we be delivered from our suffering at death?

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Nancy ~ Halifax

February 26, 2018 By Deborah Luscomb

I so enjoyed the Death Matters sessions, and found the conversations and work provocative, inspiring and informational. We have continued to chat about our dying and death plans, and to engage others in the conversations as well. Such fun! And such important work.

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Here is a thing to consider… you in diapers again.  When people are contemplating their end-of-life plans (and there aren’t enough of you doing that) a common marker is whether you can manage to take yourself to the bathroom or not.  Sometimes folks ...

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